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Playing the field
Posted By: Rico Suave
Category: General


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I think it's okay to date numerous girls simultaneously and have "fun" with them. As long as me and the girls didn't mutually agree to some sort of commitment to each other, I think it's perfectly fine. However if I was dating one girl and we both decide to not date other people, that's a different story.

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Easy-Sleazy, Lemon-Pleasy.
Posted By: Yeah-right

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(Hey! Is that PUS I see????)

I don't care about your genitals, I just hope you're protecting mine (and everyone else's) by taking the appropriate precautions - and in your case - EVERY time.

Now why did I say you are wrong? Well, it's because you are asking the wrong people. You should instead be asking each and every one of these women the very same thing you posted here, to see what they say and how they feel about what you are potentially exposing them to. If a single one of them is unaware of ALL of the others, then you are indeed a sleaze.

Thanks to behavior like yours, it's estimated that up to 80% of those between 13 and 30 years of age, are currently infected with herpes and most of them don't know it and are telling each other they are clean.

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Don't be a player
Posted By: tuacaca

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If you're honest, and everyone is clear on their position it's all good.
If you're decieving people because you think you have to to have the kind of "fun" you want, then you're a scum bag.
Maybe you're polyamorous. There's nothing wrong with that.

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Si si
Posted By: Deez eez no your cheekun'

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You need to geet them een calm, submeesive state. Den you feed her a piece of cheekun'. Deez eez the first step to asserting your domeenance.

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Beware
Posted By: bullwinkle

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1) beware of girls or guys who "agreed" to the arrangement, but then starts to act psycho on you if they see you with someone else.

2) be sure that you've CLEARLY stated to ALL these people that you ARE seeing other people. and that "seeing other people" means there might be some non-PG stuff involved.

3) don't be a jerk and freak out on the other person if you see them with another person - especially when you were the one who wanted the non-commitment arrangement

4) use protection!

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WRONG
Posted By: JMBIZZLE

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If you want AIDS its ok.....other then that protect your genitals.

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indeed
Posted By: miss x

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it's fine to date multple people at once, so long as if you're sleeping with more than one person at the same time, they are all aware. it's a mutual respect thing and i'm sure you'd want to know if the girls were having sex with other dudes, too. details aren't necessary, but it's good to know the general idea for health reasons. i agree that as long as communication is there, you can have fun with as many people as you want when everyone knows you're not committed. :) this goes for guys and girls.

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not sleazy for guys
Posted By: Johnny

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Its not sleazy. Only for girls it is. Okay, well its more slutty than sleazy.

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But it's sleazy...
Posted By: Tiffany

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Playing the field is a bit sleazy.

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Yes!
Posted By: Player

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As long as you're honest. Just remember that she will be playing the field too.

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Girls
Posted By: Jessie

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play the field even more then guys do. Beware.

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That sounds about right
Posted By: John

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Posted By: nona

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if you are truthful, upfront and content- do it. Girls play the field as much as guys. As long as everyone is honest and happy.









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