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Personal Decision
Posted By: Ms. X
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1. Both male and female have fantasies of orgies. If you expect her to go for another woman, then you should be equally as fair and go for another man.
2. Word to the wise.......don't do it....just fantasize......often (more than not) things get out of hand with orgies. "Oopsies" happen and people get feelings hurt or one person is ready to step out of them and the other isn't......
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threeway
Posted By: understanding
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There is only room in a bed for 2 people. If you don't care about this relationship than that is different. Can you handle her climaxing and screaming like a banshee by another man? I would not do it if you care about her. You can't take that back once it happens. If that is something she needs to do let her go. She still needs to find herself and sow her own oats.
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another option
Posted By: grumpy
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how about a 4 way so you both get what you want
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Hell, add the guy
Posted By: PaPa Bear
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Its all about the male ego. Sure you would rather have another woman with your wife. I could more understand if you just didn't want a three way but you just would agree if it is a woman. This seems to be your wifes fantasy. Decide if you can do it or not but in making that decision, she may get her fantasy with just a man other than yourself. Man up and give her what she wants...if not then let her go
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Open or Closed
Posted By: Orion's Belt
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It depends on whether or not you 2 have agreed that this is an open or closed relationship. If this is an open relationship, meaning that you both can sex and see others than go for it. Let her have her fantasy and you should get to do the same. If you two have agreed that this is a closed relationship, then allowing this fantasy spells doom for the relationship. Clearly both of you are still interested in sex with others thus the argument over the sex (pun intended) of the third person. You and she should have an open and honest discussion about the relationship, why this fantasy is needed, and the possible consequences before doing the three-some. Can you both live and be okay with the other having sex with someone else? Good luck!
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Ditto what Dr. said
Posted By: don't' do it
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It is a sure fire way destroy a relationship. If you really want this one to work I would not do it. My question is why would you or she want this chaos? I heard a story once where guy and a girl decided to have a threesome...The girl go so pissed at the guy during one act that she need up punching him in the face. You can never tell what type of emotions are going to be stirred up by this type of thing. If you don't care about the relationship lasting then by all means go right ahead (no pun intended). Just be safe so no one gets diseases, thanks.
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No question - do it
Posted By: tri
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life is to be experienced. Try it. You may like it. She def. will.
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bad idea
Posted By: The Dr.
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A three way can be a disaster if both of you aren't 100% committed to the idea.(the whole jealousy thing) Even couples that have been together forever can split over a threesome. Also there's the you not wanting another guy there, hey any relationship is 50/50 you want 2 girls your SO is entitled to 2 guys.
I say put the idea off till you 2 get your act together.
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Do it!!
Posted By: Jenny
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Let her get some
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This is as old as time
Posted By: Mark
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Guy wants a girl , girl wants a guy. I guess if you want one you have to be willing to allow her to get her way also. I could not do it. But some can.
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